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| On July 17th 2010 we were married. One whole year already! |
Well, my first anniversary came and went and it was really wonderful. As most of you know, I quit my job at the end of February, so Karl and I have been operating on a pretty strict budget. We would have loved to take a trip to Oregon or even Bear Lake, but the funds just weren't there. We gave ourselves about a $100 budget and did what we could with that. At first we felt a little restricted by our budget, but in the end, Saturday was such a perfect day. I thought I'd share with you all my ideas for an inexpensive, but fun filled anniversary.
1. Find something going on in your town. Here in Salt Lake, there's something going on every weekend that's usually really cheap or really free. Karl and I spent the morning at the farmer's market where we got some lunch for about $10. It's nice just to walk around and see local art and listen to the street musicians.
2. Go to a matinee. We booked our tickets to Harry Potter 7 a few weeks ago and decided to make it a matinee for cheaper. I think we paid $6 each plus a $2 service charge for our tickets. Not too bad. When the movie's over, you might feel like it should be dark outside already, but whatev. It's a small price to pay for an inexpensive day.
3. Skip going out for dinner. Make something unusual at home together. We went to Walmart to buy a little $25 grill and picked up some really nice steaks for like, $20 at Costco. Most of you already have grills I'm sure, so you can nix that expense there, we just had been meaning to buy one for a while. Either way, it was really nice to have a luxury dinner at home. TIP: You can buy some candles and candle holders at the dollar store to make it extra romantic.
4. Buy something both of you will love. I know this sounds nerdy, but Karl and I really love having new pillows. I always just used old lumpy pillows when I was a kid, so when I got my own place, I discovered the magic of the "Extra Firm Pillow for Side Sleepers." Best thing ever. Karl and I made a trip to Target and bought 4 new pillows for $20. It made for the most wonderful sleep.
5. Wash all of your bedding the day before. I also love having fresh, clean sheets. Who doesn't? I know this seems pretty menial, but it's another way of making the day feel special and making you feel warm all over when you slip under those sheets.
6. Have dessert. Karl and I knew we would be full from dinner for a while, so we treated ourselves to a bag of assorted Lindt truffles for $5. I prefer dark, he prefers milk chocolate. It was the perfect little decadent treat.You can also decorate cupcakes together or make ice cream sundaes. The sky is the limit.
7. Skip the gift. Karl and I agreed to not exchange gifts, but to just enjoy each other's company and exchange what's in our hearts and how this past year of marriage has changed us for the better. This was the best. It's interesting to see how much you can change in a year and how much your love can grow. That being said, Karl has been hiding away money and did get me a gift without me knowing. I don't know what he spent, but it wasn't from our anniversary budget.
8. Guys- You don't have to buy a huge, expensive bouquet from a florist. Go to a grocery store, and buy two or three bouquets of flowers there and arrange them in a vase you already have at home. Karl is so good at this. This year he brought me bright pink peonies (which I love), and interspersed daisies and white carnations throughout the bouquet. It was beautiful and meant so much more than a flowers some florist picked out and arranged. I'm guessing he spent around $10 total. Win.
9. Go for a night drive with the windows down and "your song" playing. We didn't do this but it's a great idea. Sometimes we drive up to the top of a mountain and get out of the car and slow dance while overlooking the valley. It may sound cheesy, but it's really so romantic. We did listen to the mix we made for our wedding though. Very nostalgic.
10. Insert anniversary appropriate activity here. Anything you want. Anything at all... ;)
In the end, our total came to about $100, plus or minus a strawberry lemonade to bring into the movie theater with us (Yeah, they let you do that at some Utah theaters). I feel really good about sticking within our budget and having a really great day where we could do things according to our own pace. I hope these ideas help out with your anniversary and/or special date.
Also, I know a lot of you are new around here, and don't know all the work we put into the wedding, so I'm posting a bunch of photos from my wedding day on
my other blog. Feel free to check them out and tell me what you loved most!