Friday, August 27, 2010

It's Fridayyy (But not for me)




Today Things:
-I'm having a particularly good day at work. I love my job and the people I work with. Working harder equals more happiness at work. Who knew?
-I'm feeling extraordinarily lucky to be married to such a wonderful man.
-I'm a tad baby hungry today. I know. I KNOW! No plans for a bean in the near future, however.
-My cold seems to be subsiding slightly. Hoorah!
-I can't wait to make lemon blueberry scones tonight.
-I bought new pants this week and it's amazing how pants that fit good and feel good can change everything.
-The sky is grey, the weather is temperate and the sun is slightly peeking out.
-My manager brought cereal (Cinnamon Toast Crunch, Trix, Fruity Pebbles, etc) for our treat day. So awesome.
-I get to leave in less than a half hour!
-I finally talked to my manager about becomming an Assistant Branch Manager. He talked to the district manager and they said we can get the ball rolling to get me there! Yay! It's going to be a long process full of action plans and trainings, but it's finally happening!

Monday, August 23, 2010

Weekend Update


Friday:
Two weeks ago Karl told me that he wanted to take me on a date. We set it for last Friday night. I got out of work early and got all dolled up. I can't believe I used to get that gussied up every night when we were first dating! It's so time consuming! Haha. He dressed up all handsome-like as well. He told me we had an errand to run before dinner just as we pulled into The Flower Patch. He ran inside and came out with a lovely purple and white daisy bouquet. He's so sweet. He also brought me a little purple mole-looking stuffed animal. His only explanation was "I'm spontaneous." Haha. We had dinner at Macaroni Grill and went to see Salt at the Gateway Mall (The movie was pretty decent actually). Overall, very romantic. It felt so good to be wined and dined. Karl definitely knows how to treat a lady. :)

Saturday:
I made Karl homemade blueberry muffins for breakfast in bed. Later we cleaned all morning and did our grocery shopping for the week. That night, we headed to the Something Corporate concert (See previous post). It was so great and I got to see my friends Fabs, Jason, and Bry Bry whom I haven't seen in forever!

Sunday:
Karl made me an oven baked omlet which was super delicious* but which later made me a little queasy because of its richness. As a result we decided to skip church and read some Harry Potter. Reading together has become our favorite thing. We then ran out and rented the first HP movie once we finished the book. We also started to watch The Interpreter while eating loads of popcorn until we got too tired to continue. Karl's mom stopped by for a bit and I made this recipe for dinner. It turned out how it was supposed to, so props to myself there, but it wasn't my favorite dish. You win some, you lose some I guess.

So there's my wonderful weekend. What did you lovelies do?

Sunday, August 22, 2010

Something Corporate 8/21/10

So I went to the Something Corporate Concert last night. So freaking amazing. There was moshing and almost fights and tender moments and such loud singing from the crowd. I remember I was 14 when I first saw them in concert. They played "21 and Invincible" and I couldn't wait til the day I would be 21. I would be done with high school, living in Utah, and most importantly, invincible. Now that I'm 21 and SoCo is doing their final tour, I can't help but think that I am in fact, invincible and just at the beginning of my life. The world truly is my oyster. I had one of those moments of complete clarity last night. I tend to have those during concerts. It was just perfect. The perfect way to culminate my 7 year obsession with Something Corporate and Andrew McMahon. And now, some pictures:


Ya, he jumps on his piano keys.

On top of the Piano.

Josh Partington, guitarist. I caught his water bottle... Then stored it down my shirt for the rest of the show. Haha.


During "Konstatine," my favorite song in the whole world. If you haven't heard it, Youtube it. Or Andrew personally gave his permission to illegally download it.

Amazing.

Pardon the fuzzy pictures. I was in the front of a mosh pit. What do you expect? Haha.

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Rain


It's pouring. I want to be outside so bad right now. I love the feeling on rain on my skin. I love how rain washes everything away. All that's left is a clean slate and a sweet smell.

A song that has always soothed me is by a Norwegian band that used to be called Aluco. One of their songs states, "Soon the rain will wash away the sickness you feel." I take this to heart every time those drops fall. It's a chance to start over. To let the past fade and to turn toward the present.

Rain is wonderful.

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

One Month In


So Karl and I have been married one whole month today! It's gone by so super fast, it's ridiculous. For the most part, being married feels the same as being engaged, but there are some definite perks to the whole marriage thing:

1. The obvious... Sa-sa!
2. All of our stuff is finally intermingled and organized. No more seperate worlds.
3. We only have one space to clean.
4. We decided that his 4Runner is now mine and my Honda is now his. I definitely got the better deal. I now have air conditioning!
5. I get to wake up next to Karl every day.
6. We no longer have seperate bills and checking accounts. It's all both of ours.
7. We got some sweet wedding presents that we never would have purchased for ourselves. Quesadilla maker? Check. Cookie scooper? Check. Pastry bags and tips? Check.
8. Bedtime stories. I read an easy book before bed every night out loud to Karl. First it was The Little Prince and now it's Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone. It's one of my favorite things.
9. When I read out loud, I can do the character's voices and sound like an idot, but I don't even care. Karl knows what he's gotten himself into. Haha.
10. No more crazy wedding planning. We have time to be together and go on walks or watch a movie and just enjoy our nights and weekends and to just enjoy each other.

These are just a few and in no particular order. Marriage really is the best. :)

Saturday, August 14, 2010

Flickr


Created a Flickr account finally. It's mostly Diana mini pictures, and most are pretty bad, but here they are: My Flickr. Enjoy!

Thursday, August 12, 2010



Pardon the language again, but I'm becomming obsessed with Natalie Dee. These comics are snarky and completely hilarious.

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Words of Wednesday


“It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.”
-Confucius

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Saturday, August 7, 2010

Le Petit Prince




So Karl and I finished The Little Prince last night. That book is so much more than a children's book. It's deep and evokes such strong feelings. It's a commentary on society's rush to grow up and let go of the naivete of childhood among other things. The book made me laugh and cry simultaneously. Everyone needs to read this book. It's short and sweet, but the content is vital. I want to live in that book.

"One sees clearly only with the heart. Anything essential is invisible to the eyes."

Grown-ups like numbers. When you tell them about a new friend, they never ask questions about what really matters. They never ask: "What does his voice sound like?" "What games does he like best?" "Does he collect butterflies?". They ask: "How old is he?" "How many brothers does he have?" "How much does he weigh?" "How much money does his father make?" Only then do they think they know him.

"Nothing's perfect," sighed the fox. "My life is monotonous. I hunt chickens; people hunt me. All chickens are just alike, and all men are just alike. So I'm rather bored. But if you tame me, my life will be filled with sunshine. I'll know the sound of footsteps that will be different from all the rest. Other footsteps send me back underground. Yours will call me out of my burrow like music. And then, look! You see the wheat fields over there? I don't eat bread. For me, wheat is no use whatever. Wheat fields say nothing to me. Which is sad. But you have hair the color of gold. So it will be wonderful, once you've tamed me! The wheat, which is golden, will remind me of you. And I'll love the sound of the wind in the wheat..."



"People have stars, but they aren't the same. For travelers, the stars are guides. For other people, they're nothing but tiny lights. And for still others, for scholars, they're problems. For my businessman, they were gold. But all those stars are silent stars. You, though, you'll have stars like nobody else."
"What do you mean?"

"When you look up at the sky at night, since I'll be living on one of them, since I'll be laughing on one of them, for you, it'll be as if all the stars are laughing. You'll have stars that can laugh!"

And he laughed again.

"And when you're consoled (everyone is eventually consoled), you'll be glad you've known me. You'll always be my friend. You'll feel like laughing with me. And you'll open your windows sometimes just for the fun of it... And your friends will be amazed to see you laughing while you're looking up at the sky. Then you'll tell them, 'Yes, it's the stars. They always make me laugh!"

Bare


It's Saturday and very very slow at work so I figured I'd blog about my new favorite thing. I purchased Bare Minerals about 2 weeks ago after lusting for it for a very very long time. I went in, had a color match and voila! Gorgeous! I'm not touting my own horn or anything, but I naturally have pretty good skin (thanks mom!) but I've been breaking out a ton lately. My liquid foundation felt too heavy and I was often way too tired to wash my face before bed. Before you know it I had a few very prominent zits. Since using Bare Minerals, my face has cleared up dramatically. My face looks fresher, feels more natural, and doesn't leave a residue on my cell or work phones. That last factor was the clincher for me. I can sleep in it and it has SPF 15 in it. The ladies at Bare Escentuals showed me how to use the bronzer, how to apply the foundation, and how to use it as concealer. It takes me 5 minutes to do my makeup in the morning and I don't have to use blush anymore. Ah! I can't say enough good things about it. It's SO worth the $60 I paid AND I got a free Mini Refillable Buffing Brush! La-la-love!

Friday, August 6, 2010

Llamas with Hats 2



I may be a sick individual, but I cannot stop laughing.

It's kinda Friday



It's been a while since I've done a Friday Fill-In. I have to work tomorrow, so today is not really my Friday, but whatevs.

My contribution is bolded.

1. Life is a journey.

2. Take a deep, focus on the present, and keep going.

3. My last text message (or IM) ended in these three words: "a strawberry milkshake". Watch "Llamas Wearing Hats 2". Like right now.

4. Shepherd's pie is what I'm thinking about for dinner sometime soon.

5. On the 1st day of August I went to my new ward for church!

6. I miss being lively and energetic.

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to Andrea's baby shower, tomorrow my plans include deep cleaning and Sunday, I want to sleep in!



Half way through The Alchemist and it's changing my life. So so good.

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Wife-hood


I always thought that being married would be easy as pie. That all of my problems and insecurities would disappear, being replaced by admiration and adoration. Marriage has been highly glamorized, especially here in Utah, where if you're a girl and not married by 25, you may considered an old maid. There's this expectation that as soon as that ring slides on your finger, you become a phenomenal cook and an exceptional cleaner. I've been married almost three weeks and have inundated myself in the expectation of perfection I've created for myself (Karl is wonderful and has never expected me to wait on him or be perfect). Yesterday culminated in a break down over the pot roast that I made for dinner. It was a little bland and the meat pretty dry. Keep in mind this was my first experience making pot roast. I had a total break down. I collapsed into tears. All of the expectations bogged me down and stressed me out.

After a long talk with Karl and a good look at myself I realized that I am not just a wife. I am Kristie Lynne Forzese, now Kristie Lynne Bringhurst. I am half of a wonderful partnership but I am also an individual. I have dreams and aspirations. I keep letting the fear of mediocrity get to me. I am going to let go of that societal archetype. I have not magically "found myself" now that I have a new last name. I am making a resolution as of today. I am going to let myself be myself, whoever that is. I'm not going to compare myself to others or continue to let myself be burdened with expectations. Today is a new day. I'm not going to wait for the perfect destination. I'm going to enjoy my imperfect journey. I still get to find new hobbies and develop new talents. I have a wonderful husband who encourages me and supports me in trying new things. Married life is wonderful, but it's certainly not perfect. I say let's embrace our whole selves as women, whether we're married or single. We are unique and wonderful and it's important to continue our life's journey with someone or without. Let's persevere in our aspirations!

Monday, August 2, 2010

I have a Barnes and Noble addiction.



Yesterday I finally finished reading Jane Eyre, by Charlotte Bronte. From the very first page I was captivated. I love a good romantic classic, but Jane Eyre is more than that. It's a story of perseverance and independence. The relationship between Jane and Mr. Rochester, which first seemed a bit off, evolved into more than infatuation and manipulations. There were trials and hardships and sadness, but also joy and so much love. I love Jane's character. She is strong, intelligent, driven, giving, and courageous. All the things I, and most people, emulate. I'm not going to lie, I cried... A lot. I for sure recommend this book. It was an instant success for a reason. Charlotte Bronte understood love. She could express what is so difficult for so many. This quote has and will stick with me indefinitely:

"I know what it is to live entirely for and with what I love best on earth. I hold myself supremely blest--blest beyond what language can express; because I am my husband's life as fully is he is mine. No woman was ever nearer to her mate than I am: ever more absolutely bone of his bone and flesh of his flesh. I know no weariness of my Edward's society: he knows none of mine, any more than we each do of the pulsation of the heart that beats in our separate bosoms; consequently, we are ever together. To be together is for us to be at once as free as in solitude, as gay as in company. We talk, I believe, all day long: to talk to each other is but a more animated and an audible thinking. All my confidence is bestowed on him, all his confidence is devoted to me; we are precisely suited in character--perfect concord is the result. "

She gets it. This is how love feels!

Next up on the list is a couple of books I've been wanting to read for a while.


First is The Little Prince, by Antoine de Saint-Exupery. Yes, it's a children's book and yes, I love it so far. It has become mine and Karl's bed time story. :)


The next book is The Alchemist, by Paulo Coelho. I plan on starting this one today. I can't wait.

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